From that moment it's as though you've died, and all public traces of your existence are scrubbed from the record. Two months ago that name did not exist. Falling into journalism was an astonishing stroke of luck. They are distinguished from the Open Brethren from whom they separated in 1848. The marriage relationship is very much a partnership. So at first pass, hardly the Machiavellian, freakish, hostile weirdos you might expect from all the reports. Nothing will ever be as bad as escaping my sect upbringing. The event, named "Game Plan 2016" was held at Auckland's Vector Arena and cost $2415 to attend both days Hansen and Apiata spoke. Now in their early 40s with four children and a playground business, the couple had been married four years and already had two children when they left. "We are accused of being secretive; it's more that we want to keep our heads down and live according to our convictions. Many Exclusive Brethren work in Brethren-owned companies, so they have to give up their jobs as well as their family and their home if they leave the faith. Three people died and six others were injured in the crash. BORN into the controversial Exclusive Brethren cult that outlaws birthdays, pop music and women wearing trousers or make-up, Jessie Shedden, 34, needed every ounce of courage to plan her escapeR (I was lucky to have the first eight years of my education in the public system, which gave me limited exposure to non-Brethren kids, but these days sect children are educated entirely within the Brethren system.) My parents threw me out of their house, waiting until I was away one weekend before dumping my belongings in a storage unit and telling me I could collect the key. Members follow a rigid code of conduct based strictly on Bible teaching. From tear gas to television, Craig Hoyle has had quite the ride since leaving the Exclusive Brethren sect 10 years ago. (The terms "conservative" and "progressive" are often informally used to describe the emphasis, or lack of emphasis, that Brethren assemblies and individuals put on matters of doctrine, worship, and church order which distinguish them from other Evangelical Christians). Families do not have televisions, radios or computers, or go to the cinema or theatre. The link leads to an archived version of the website. This study was formerly hosted at theexclusivebrethren.com the only site endorsed by the Exclusive Brethren. The site has since been renamed to plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch.org, to reflect the movements 2012 name change. no member of the group will speak, work or eat with them. Non-members are called 'worldlies'. Perhaps if I came clean, I reasoned, the scales would fall away and I'd reach a new level of spiritual enlightenment. [32], GC3 is an umbrella organisation encompassing three institutions: Global Connections in Mission (GCiM), which supports 150 missionaries abroad as well as almost 100 evangelists in New Zealand,[3] GC Assist, an "operations trust" within GC3 which runs, among other projects, Headspace, a one-year program for school leavers,[33] and GC Aid, a humanitarian NGO.[34]. They told me I was mentally unwell. "Gospel Chapels" tend to be conservative; "Gospel Halls" even more so. A flowchart illustrates how the Exclusive Brethren - or Plymouth Brethren Christian Church - money-go-round works. Hot, silent tears come from nowhere grief, yes, but hard to pinpoint. In addition to the kickbacks, Brethren-owned businesses also move a percentage of their profits into trusts or directly to the National Assistance Fund. Outsiders see him as an autocrat. They were a picture of languid happiness, sitting there in the sun. 'The expectation was that you would buy a house, marry a Brethren girl, settle down and raise a Brethren family, and the cycle would rinse and repeat.'. My gaze rested on them for a few seconds before I looked away. "So let's say their profit was $200,000 and they decided to donate $50,000. "It's like the inside of a golf ball in there, everything is all tied together, with a very centralised structure and power dynamic.". One of them lifted his bare feet onto the lap of the other and leaned back in his chair. If they dont they are withdrawn from i.e. The awful, incomprehensible reality of being true to yourself is that sometimes it means hurting those you love most dearly. Foster Crane, a missionary to Fiji, closed ranks to oppose what they stood for. Massey religious history expert Peter Lineham believes the political campaigns are part of a masterplan orchestrated by the powerful, rich Sydney-based world leader Bruce Hales, implemented here by a select group of Brethren businessmen. Brethren were long noted for teaching cessationism the idea that the so-called sign gifts (such as miracles, divine healing, and speaking in tongues) were given only to the early church to authenticate the apostles, and "ceased" with the death of the last apostle. Two young girls who left recently are pregnant already," says Adrian. We're just simple Christians, normal people, we look after our own and go about our business, don't hurt anyone." After all, I had been sent to Sydney from New Zealand so my sexuality could be suppressed, not indulged. It was an ill-advised attempt at escape. If they leave, or are expelled from the Brethren, they have to give up their jobs as well as their family and their home. Graeme Hubbard left the Exclusive Brethren at 21. [1] The Exclusive Brethren are now divided into a number of groups, most of which differ on minor points of doctrine or practice. They are evil. If our kids were to see my husband's parents in the street, they'd say 'Hello', and 30 seconds later it would be 'I best be on my way'." Across the Tasman, we've seen exposes of strong Exclusive Brethren financial backing in John Howard's re-election and allegations of past money-smuggling and child sexual abuse cover-ups. But not all members can live such a controlled existence. Some Brethren sources claim this number to be an underestimate, with internal surveys indicating as many as 38,000 adults and children attending Brethren assemblies almost one percent of New Zealand's population. The most serious charges were dropped. I began talking to outsiders for help and advice. "We had to go to business meetings, paid thousands of dollars to go to business meetings all round New Zealand. The leader of the church has absolute power to appoint the priests, resolve breaches of the rules, approve marriages and decide on punishments. When the Herald on Sunday approached Dargaville Brethren businessmen to set the record straight about their way of life, most politely dismissed us. 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As well as forcing Brethren businesses to purchase locked-down computers, phones and IT services, UBT also charged "consultancy fees", which could amount to hundreds of thousands of dollars, and even started taking controlling stakes in profitable companies through a venture called Vision Accelerator. It was a decision that changed my life. Members marry each other, rarely divorce, and are encouraged to have large families. This is quite different from mainstream Christian belief, which says that Jesus was always fully God and fully man. I went undercover for 60 Minutes to help expose an international fraudster wanted by the FBI, gaining his trust while wired with a hidden camera. [11], Meanwhile, Gordon Forlong, a Scottish lawyer turned evangelist who had played a prominent role in the Second Great Awakening in Scotland around 1859-1860 and had subsequently moved to England and founded a large congregation, Talbot Tabernacle, in Notting Hill, London, emigrated to New Zealand in 1876, where he spent the final thirty-two years of his life. This site rightly bills itself as the [p]remier resource for their origin, progress and testimony 1827-1959 on. One of your four brothers gets married, but of course you're not invited to the wedding. In April 2009, finally ready to make my move, I called a meeting with the priests and told them I was leaving the Exclusive Brethren. "And in this case, the companies involved appear to be under the control of the church.". ApologeticsIndex.org is published by Anton Hein together with his wife, Janet, and the Apologetics Index team. Bruce Hales' father John, and his brother ran a "commercial system" between 1960 and 1965, which gave them control of Brethren businesses. The principle of separating from evil became for him and his associates the essential basis for Christian unity and common fellowship. "A lot of guys, they've got a perception out here it's just one big orgy. Brethren women are distinguished by their white or blue headscarves and long hair -- which must never be cut. Ship visits to New Zealand became increasingly frequent in the 1860s, and Exclusives back in the British Isles began to hear reports that the New Zealand Brethren were deviating from accepted norms. I stared in fascination. Who should be admitted to the breaking of bread ceremony? Perhaps the best-known And all the old people in the Exclusive Brethren now, they're all depressed, because they know it's all wrong. Thompson laments a love betrayed: At the end of the song, Mum stopped to answer my questions about blackboards. It was exhausting, especially for families with young children, but we heard repeatedly how we were the "chosen ones", members of a spiritual elite carving out a place for God on Earth, destined for special reward when we got to heaven. Brethren leaders throughout New Zealand unanimously rejected the Charismatic movement in 1964, and decided that the assembly at Te Papapa, Mangere, which had endorsed the view that all spiritual gifts were operating today, would no longer be "recognized" as a Brethren assembly. It expressly denies being either a union or an advocacy group; its stated aim is to give pastors a forum for mutual support and encouragement. Although he did not commit himself exclusively to the Brethren movement, his former steward, James Chrystall helped organize his converts into Brethren assemblies, which expanded from the Whanganui/Manawatu area.[12]. Stewart eventually pleaded guilty to careless driving causing death in relation to the deaths of Susanna, 48, and Sadie Stewart, 16, and James Wearmouth, 18 and was given a four month sentence of community detention. Please keep out of jail," Hales told followers. Another ex-member, whom RNZ has agreed not to name, said he managed to hold onto his position in the family business, despite huge pressure from church leaders - but said many others were not so fortunate. They cannot form friendships, or eat with people outside the church -- who are known as "worldlies". It was a bright spring day when I got one final phone call from a priest. We went to work in businesses owned by Brethren; we socialised with Brethren; saw them at church every night, and enjoyed the benefits of a life fully provided. If brethren and sisters continue to fellowship with other professing Christians who hold and practise the sign-gifts they will have to withdraw because we will have nothing to do with these practices. At the age of 20, I found myself learning the ways of the world for the first time, and was baffled by how it all worked. The ex-churchmember said members of the Exclusive Brethren, also known as the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church, who found themselves in jail needed support more than ever. According to Statistics New Zealand there were 20,406 Brethren in New Zealand in 2001. My Brethren calls for a return to our spiritual heritage, to the Scriptural principles, practices and teachings of former years and to the acceptance of personal responsibility for the maintenance of the truth in our days. 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This is based on the Biblical procedure for the treatment of lepers, and involves being isolated from family and friends and only allowed to see specially chosen church members until local church leaders believe that God has forgiven the person. Craddock told me he was experimenting with helping others change their sexuality, as yet unsuccessfully, and in the meantime at least my sex drive could be significantly reduced. Private individuals or businesses are free to spend their money how they like - but Dr Gousmett argues trading by charities should be taxed. An evangelical church based in Christchurch is the latest to be accused of exploiting members for long voluntary hours and huge donations, despite the church owning assets worth millions of dollars. Source: The Exclusive Brethren, BBC. Pathways College is a Tauranga-based theological seminary formed in February 2000 by the merger of two older Brethren[30] institutions: New Zealand Assembly Bible School and GLO Training Centre. Then they can claim that as a deduction in their accounts and reduce their tax liability at the end of the day. It has two parts: Members of the Exclusive Brethren do not make friends, or even eat with people outside their church. [], Members see the head of their church as a servant leader who puts his lives at the disposal of others. Long before Exclusive Brethren men hired a private investigator to dig dirt on the Prime Minister and other Labour politicians, before Brethren tried to pressure several political parties into a National-led coalition, before the so-called "Secret Seven" Brethren businessmen put almost $1 million into anti-Labour and anti-Green pamphlet campaigns at last year's election, members of this fundamental Christian fellowship have been part of the commercial fabric of this town, and the wider Kaipara district. The list appears to have been compiled originally by a member of that fellowship at some time after 1970. They are absolutely vicious to those who want to leave, you'll lose everything, including your family. They were used as cash-cows by their leaders. You can only take people as they treat you." It's the same in 40 towns around the country, from Gisborne to Cust. By the time I was born, in the late autumn of 1989, the Exclusive Brethren had morphed into an oppressive sect that tightly managed every aspect of its members' lives. On Sundays church attendance ramped up to four different services, with the earliest at 6am. He claims that the Exclusive Brethren destroys people and families, have no respect for women and absolute contempt for anyone not in their religious group, and do all this while enjoying the benefit of charitable status from our government. 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They see young single people often "going off the rails" after leaving the church. I wrote to Bruce Hales thanking him for his help, imparting the good news that I had overcome my sinful feelings. that we might humble ourselves before the Lord for our part active or passive in the shameful happenings and sorrow-ful scatterings which have taken place in our times. Kiwi journalist Craig Hoyle immediately after being tear-gassed during Hong Kong riots on June 13, 2019. I'd sit with one or two of these so-called priests, and launch into a tearful drunken confession as they plied me with whisky. Most members are so isolated within the sect that they cant even imagine a life on the outside. With no TV or stereo, most kids learnt to play instruments and played together. Brethren priests receive no formal training and their methods ranged from abuse to emotional manipulation. The Exclusive Brethren practice the doctrine of separation: they eat, sleep and live apart from the world, except when doing business with 'worldly' people. Brethren women are distinguished by their white or blue headscarves and long hair -- which must never be cut. Wearmouth said it had been an "incredibly difficult" two years since his son died. "We don't want anybody to get into jail. The web site appears to be an attempt to counter the flow of negative publicity surrounding the Exclusive Brethren (example: The Brethren sent us to Hell), Members are not allowed to have televisions or radios and they are forbidden from using the internet, because the book of Revelation tells them that the devil is the prince with the power of the air. Life in the Brethren could be happy enough if you stuck to the rules. Television is a strange thing. Like most ex-Brethren - they call themselves ex-peebs (short for people of the Exclusive Brethren) - the hardest thing has been losing family from their lives. Helen Clark's calling for Don Brash to step down as National Party leader because of his now-renounced relations with Exclusive Brethren lobbyists. "You'd get a new dress and you'd have to get the perfect scarf to match it, and the right shape. The Stewards Trust and Stewards Foundation are two separate, but closely related, organizations with identical membership. It is worth noting that although many "Community Churches" and "Bible Churches" in New Zealand are part of the Open Brethren movement, others such as Mairangi Bay Community Church are not. They keep themselves apart because they believe that "it is impossible for God to fully bless and use his children who are in compromise or complicity with evil". Exclusive Brethren an evil, corrupt cult, court told Kevin Rudd allows secret talks with 'cult' Brethren's Qld schools gain $3m Inside the Brethren lobby horse Member of sect stalked women Exclusive access for anti-gay cult Exclusive Brethren school given $1m state grants Brethren schools net $18m funding No university for Exclusive Brethren kids ", Rob McLean, who was excommunicated from the church over a decade ago, said for many older Brethren, the commercial control of the church was history repeating itself. The main gospel hall in Dargaville resembles a converted factory, with narrow frosted windows on one side only. The Christian Community Churches of New Zealand (formerly known as the Christian Brethren Church of New Zealand) is the name by which churches in the Open Brethren movement in New Zealand are publicly known. Switzerland, Sweden, North and South America, UK, Australia and New Zealand. So that's a very, very unsatisfactory situation for Bruce Hales.". (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); The Exclusive Brethren movement is an extremist branch or sect of the Plymouth Brethren. These sessions often involved alcohol. Says Diana: "To this day my parents are heartbroken, because they can't have anything to do with us. She explained how chalk could be dusted away. Ensconced in the narrow world of the Exclusive Brethren, Craig realised he was gay and his only options were to live a lie or break free. I felt trapped, a Brethren failure, and ultimately convinced that I needed to confess my sexuality. Sadie Stewart, 16, James Wearmouth, 18, and Susanna Stewart, 48, died when the ute driven by Russell Stewart crashed into a tree. A recent relationship breakup felt similarly traumatic but through it all I repeated my mantra: "I survived leaving the Brethren, I can survive this, too." Instead I felt condemned to struggle against the essence of who I was. For him, too, the forced distancing from his parents hurt the most. ", He added: "They are an extremist group that will exaggerate or ignore one verse from the bible for theirown gain. This cult-like control is unbiblical, and is one of the reasons why the movement has attracted negative publicity. He's organising a reunion for "ex-peebs" next Easter, and is expecting 150. The Exclusive Brethren is the name given (by outsiders) to those among the so-called Plymouth Brethren who, in the mid-nineteenth century, joined John Nelson Darby ( 1800-82) in forming a Christian fellowship which they believed to be based on strict biblical principles. They are using church connections to run their business and control people.". All members must follow the rigid code of behaviour and rules that govern the contact they can have with outsiders. [20] Assemblies affirming a cessationist position include The Orchard in Te Puke,[21] Bethany Bible Chapel in Auckland,[22] and Onekawa Bible Church in Napier.[23]. Photo: Supplied. [6] Although he was associated with the Exclusive Brethren of John Nelson Darby, he decided that the schism that had taken place in 1848 was irrelevant to New Zealand. * A national trust, run by three of the Secret Seven who bankrolled the anti-government pamphlets last year, now operates 15 regional campuses under the umbrella of Westmount School. He is Australian Bruce Hales. This week, former teachers at Brethren-run schools claimed the schools heavily censored reading material, ripping out chapters on reproduction from science texts, and dictated every aspect of the children's lives. According to the Evangelical publication, Operation World, there are 202 Brethren congregations in New Zealand[2] with 16,164 in regular attendance (including children). Many of UBT's vendors are leading global brands which provide a wide range of products and services, from travel, corporate fuel cards to insurances. 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